David Hayward - The NakedPastor

THE LASTING SUPPER

A Safe and Supportive Community for Deconstructing Your Beliefs and Finding Your Path to Spiritual Freedom.

If you’re struggling to navigate life through shifting spiritual beliefs, and you’re feeling isolated or alone on your journey of deconstruction, then I’d like to invite you to pull up a chair and join us inside The Lasting Supper community.  

At The Lasting Supper, we know how long, lonely and overwhelming the journey of deconstruction can be, and for the last 12 years we’ve been providing a safe place for people like you to freely explore your beliefs and find your authentic spiritual path–a place where you'll be met with empathy, acceptance and understanding, instead of judgment and shame. 
 
In our low-cost monthly membership, you'll gain access to a wealth of weekly resources to support you through the 5 stages of deconstruction on your path to spiritual independence–resources including video trainings, PDF downloads, live Q&A calls, and our exclusive members forum where you’ll get to connect with others and build lasting friendships so that you’re not navigating deconstruction all alone. 
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LASTING SUPPER

A Safe and Supportive Community for Deconstructing Your Beliefs and Finding Your Path to Spiritual Freedom.

If you’re struggling to navigate life through shifting spiritual beliefs, and you’re feeling isolated or alone on your journey of deconstruction, then I’d like to invite you to pull up a chair and join us inside The Lasting Supper community.  

At The Lasting Supper, we know how long, lonely and overwhelming the journey of deconstruction can be and for the last 12 years we’ve been providing a safe place for people like you to freely explore your beliefs and find your authentic spiritual path while being met with empathy, acceptance and understanding.
 
In our low-cost monthly membership, you'll gain access to a wealth of weekly resources to support you on your path to spiritual independence–including video trainings, PDF downloads, live Q&A calls, and our exclusive members forum where you’ll get to connect with others and build lasting friendships so that you’re not navigating deconstruction all alone. 
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What Members Are Saying...

Cheryl S.

"TLS provided the safe, nonjudgmental community I’d always wanted..."

"Before joining The Lasting Supper, I felt utterly alone. Most of my friends and acquaintances were deeply rooted in religion and I didn’t have the exposure I wanted to people who were different from me. Once I became a member TLS provided the safe, nonjudgmental community I’d always wanted and it allowed me to grow, express myself, and connect with people from all walks of life. This supportive environment has made me more loving, understanding, and less judgmental. It has given me an outlet to express myself without a fear of judgment and a place to grow into the person I want to be. If you're seeking a place to feel safe, heard, and validated, I highly recommend joining TLS." 
Patrick Green

"These friendships have saved my life..."

"Before joining The Lasting Supper, I felt like I had failed God & my family, and life had me really down. I simply wanted friends who 'got it' and understood my experience but I didn’t know where to find them. When I heard about TLS I was initially skeptical because I thought David might just be another personality trying to profit from people seeking spiritual connection, but when I saw him standing up for someone else on his blog I decided to give it a try. 

I’m glad I took that jump because TLS has been a lifeline for me - these friendships have saved my life and brought beauty back into it, and the community has been an important ingredient in my healing, mental health, and personal growth. I am so grateful for the people here because they enrich me and in my darkest times they were my only friends. This community is real and it's a place to rediscover yourself even when you feel lost. So for anyone who’s feeling alone in deconstruction, I would say, 'Just do it and don't be alone anymore.' 
Amy Hines

"This community values my voice..."

"Being rejected by my community due to my changing beliefs left me feeling angry, abandoned and incredibly alone. I was looking for open minded people who could accept me as the evolving person I am and I’m glad that I found TLS. The Lasting Supper intrigued me with its enticing name and I felt excited by a 'family' table where there would always be a seat for me. This community has been so valuable to me that it still brings tears to my eyes as I type this. 

Since joining, I've transformed from a delicate seedling to a strong redwood and been able to shed the fear and anger toward those who harmed me. Knowing this community values my voice has been a game changer and truly transformative in my life. It's a space to be real—whether you’re venting, grieving, or celebrating, everyone listens and supports with compassion and understanding. TLS has helped me rebuild trust in humanity, allowed me to belong even as I evolve through various beliefs, and provided a space where questions are valued over 'right' answers. I feel truly welcome and at home." 

What Members Are Saying...

"TLS provided the safe, nonjudgmental community I’d always wanted..."

Cheryl S.
"Before joining The Lasting Supper, I felt utterly alone. Most of my friends and acquaintances were deeply rooted in religion and I didn’t have the exposure I wanted to people who were different from me. Once I became a member TLS provided the safe, nonjudgmental community I’d always wanted and it allowed me to grow, express myself, and connect with people from all walks of life. This supportive environment has made me more loving, understanding, and less judgmental. It has given me an outlet to express myself without a fear of judgment and a place to grow into the person I want to be. If you're seeking a place to feel safe, heard, and validated, I highly recommend joining TLS." 

"These friendships have saved my life..."

Patrick Green
"Before joining The Lasting Supper, I felt like I had failed God & my family, and life had me really down. I simply wanted friends who 'got it' and understood my experience but I didn’t know where to find them. When I heard about TLS I was initially skeptical because I thought David might just be another personality trying to profit from people seeking spiritual connection, but when I saw him standing up for someone else on his blog I decided to give it a try. 

I’m glad I took that jump because TLS has been a lifeline for me - these friendships have saved my life and brought beauty back into it, and the community has been an important ingredient in my healing, mental health, and personal growth. I am so grateful for the people here because they enrich me and in my darkest times they were my only friends. This community is real and it's a place to rediscover yourself even when you feel lost. So for anyone who’s feeling alone in deconstruction, I would say, 'Just do it and don't be alone anymore.' 

"This community values my voice..."

Amy Hines
"Being rejected by my community due to my changing beliefs left me feeling angry, abandoned and incredibly alone. I was looking for open minded people who could accept me as the evolving person I am and I’m glad that I found TLS. The Lasting Supper intrigued me with its enticing name and I felt excited by a 'family' table where there would always be a seat for me. This community has been so valuable to me that it still brings tears to my eyes as I type this. 

Since joining, I've transformed from a delicate seedling to a strong redwood and been able to shed the fear and anger toward those who harmed me. Knowing this community values my voice has been a game changer and truly transformative in my life. It's a space to be real—whether you’re venting, grieving, or celebrating, everyone listens and supports with compassion and understanding. TLS has helped me rebuild trust in humanity, allowed me to belong even as I evolve through various beliefs, and provided a space where questions are valued over 'right' answers. I feel truly welcome and at home." 

Are You Questioning Your Beliefs & Feeling Alone?

If you find yourself questioning your beliefs, wrestling with your religion, or faltering in your faith, and you have this inner knowing that there’s got to be a better path for you…

If you’re struggling to find answers and you’re seeking a deeper level of truth, but you feel isolated and alone on your journey…

And if you’re wishing you had a safe place to ask the tough questions, get curious about your experience, and be met with love and care instead of shame and judgment…

You’re in the right place!

Are You Questioning Your Beliefs & Feeling Alone?

If you find yourself questioning your beliefs, wrestling with your religion, or faltering in your faith, and you have this inner knowing that there’s got to be a better path for you…

If you’re struggling to find answers and you’re seeking a deeper level of truth, but you feel isolated and alone on your journey…

And if you’re wishing you had a safe place to ask the tough questions, get curious about your experience, and be met with love and care instead of shame and judgment…

You’re in the right place!

If You Feel This Way, 
You’re Not Alone!


Doubting everything you've been raised to believe can be incredibly confronting and daunting, especially when you're surrounded by family, friends and community who still religiously hold those beliefs. This can make it so challenging to start asking questions, getting curious about other possibilities and exploring a new path for yourself. 

Fortunately, you’re not alone! 

There are millions of people out there on a similar journey of deconstruction. They’re searching for answers just like you are, and they’re seeking a community where they feel like they belong. That’s why I created The Lasting Supper back in 2012. It’s a safe haven and community for kindred spirits like you who are in search of clarity, direction, and guidance on their spiritual journey… a place where you’ll be supported, affirmed and validated every step of the way as you find your own truth and create spiritual freedom.

Can You Relate?


Doubting everything you've been raised to believe can be incredibly confronting and daunting, especially when you're surrounded by family, friends and community who still religiously hold those beliefs. This can make it so challenging to start asking questions, getting curious about other possibilities and exploring a new spiritual path for yourself. 

Fortunately, you’re not alone! 

There are millions of people out there on a similar journey of deconstruction. They’re searching for answers just like you are, and they’re seeking a community where they feel like they belong. That’s why I created The Lasting Supper back in 2012. It’s a safe haven and community for kindred spirits like you who are in search of clarity, direction, and guidance on their spiritual journey… a place where you’ll be supported, affirmed and validated every step of the way as you find your own truth and create spiritual freedom.

Hi, I’m David Hayward, also known as “The NakedPastor.”

For 30 years, I was a Christian pastor with a deep commitment to my faith, but in 2010, everything I grew up believing, and then teaching, was starting to fall apart. My beliefs were beginning to change and I knew that to live a truly authentic life I had to find a new path.   

When I walked away from the church I lost my long-time community, was confronted with challenges in my marriage, and had a lot of people upset with me… It was one of the hardest decisions I've ever made, but one of the most important, on my journey to spiritual independence and freedom. 

I didn’t realize how long, lonely and challenging that road of deconstruction was going to be, but as I started sharing my story and cartoons online I realized that I wasn’t alone... and neither are you!

In fact, there are millions of people out there on a similar journey of deconstruction. They're searching for answers and seeking a community where they feel like they belong. 
That’s why I created The Lasting Supper back in 2012–to be a safe haven and support system for people like you who are in search of clarity, direction, and guidance on their spiritual journey… a place where you’ll be supported, affirmed and validated every step of the way as you find your own truth and create spiritual freedom.

Listen, I know how hard it can be to start doubting everything you've been raised to believe. It can be incredibly confronting and daunting, especially when you're surrounded by family, friends and community who still religiously hold those beliefs. That makes it so challenging to start asking questions, get curious about other possibilities and explore a new spiritual path that is more authentic for you. 

Inside The Lasting Supper, you’ll be welcomed with open arms by a kind and loving group of people on a similar journey, who are ready to listen to your stories, connect with your experience, and support you on your path. 

If you can relate to anything I'm sharing, I'd love for you to pull up a chair and join us!

Through a lot of time, effort, energy and trial & error I’m happy to say that I found my way, and in 2012, I launched The Lasting Supper to be the community I had needed when I started to deconstruct… a safe and supportive community of independent thinkers where we support each other on our journey’s of deconstruction and personal spiritual freedom. A place where we enjoy deep connection, build new friendships, and learn to become even more authentic versions of ourselves. 

If you can relate to any part of my story I want you to know that you’re not alone, and that your journey doesn’t have to be as long, lonely or challenging as mine was. I created The Lasting Supper community for people just like you, and I invite you to pull up a chair and join us at the table. When you do, you’ll be welcomed with open arms by a kind and loving group of people just like you, who are ready to listen to your stories, connect with your experience, and support you on your journey.

Hi, I’m David Hayward, also known as “The NakedPastor.”

For 30 years, I was a Christian pastor with a deep commitment to my faith, but in 2010, everything I grew up believing, and then teaching, was starting to fall apart. My beliefs were beginning to change and I knew that to live a truly authentic life I had to find a new path.   

When I walked away from the church I lost my long-time community, was confronted with challenges in my marriage, and had a lot of people upset with me… It was one of the hardest decisions I've ever made, but one of the most important, on my journey to spiritual independence and freedom. 

I didn’t realize how long, lonely and challenging that road of deconstruction was going to be, but as I started sharing my story and cartoons online I realized that I wasn’t alone... and neither are you!

In fact, there are millions of people out there on a similar journey of deconstruction. They're searching for answers and seeking a community where they feel like they belong. 
That’s why I created The Lasting Supper back in 2012–to be a safe haven and support system for people like you who are in search of clarity, direction, and guidance on their spiritual journey… a place where you’ll be supported, affirmed and validated every step of the way as you find your own truth and create spiritual freedom.

Listen, I know how hard it can be to start doubting everything you've been raised to believe. It can be incredibly confronting and daunting, especially when you're surrounded by family, friends and community who still religiously hold those beliefs. That makes it so challenging to start asking questions, get curious about other possibilities and explore a new spiritual path that is more authentic for you. 

Inside The Lasting Supper, you’ll be welcomed with open arms by a kind and loving group of people on a similar journey, who are ready to listen to your stories, connect with your experience, and support you on your path. 

If you can relate to anything I'm sharing, I'd love for you to pull up a chair and join us!

Through a lot of time, effort, energy and trial & error I’m happy to say that I found my way, and in 2012, I launched The Lasting Supper to be the community I had needed when I started to deconstruct… a safe and supportive community of independent thinkers where we support each other on our journey’s of deconstruction and personal spiritual freedom. A place where we enjoy deep connection, build new friendships, and learn to become even more authentic versions of ourselves. 

If you can relate to any part of my story I want you to know that you’re not alone, and that your journey doesn’t have to be as long, lonely or challenging as mine was. I created The Lasting Supper community for people just like you, and I invite you to pull up a chair and join us at the table. When you do, you’ll be welcomed with open arms by a kind and loving group of people just like you, who are ready to listen to your stories, connect with your experience, and support you on your journey.

When You Join You Will Enjoy…


Community Support:

Get access to a supportive and understanding community where you can share your unique journey of deconstruction and have a safe space for guidance, care and support.


Clarity and Direction:

Benefit from weekly resources, discussions, and mini-courses designed to help you find clarity, direction, and peace of mind on your spiritual journey. 


Freedom to Question:

Embrace the freedom to question and explore without judgment. Asking tough questions and seeking alternative paths are encouraged, respected and supported. No more hiding! 


Navigate Deconstruction:

Deconstruction can be lonely… but not when you have a community. TLS empowers you to connect with other like-minded members, gain insights, and receive guidance from others who’ve experienced something similar to you.


A Sense of Belonging:

Experience a sense of belonging, connection and friendship with like-minded individuals who understand the complexities of spiritual transformation and are right there on that path with you. 


Personal Expression:

The Lasting Supper encourages you to express yourself creatively and authentically, and to share your stories and experiences. It’s a safe environment for you to share your personal expression and experience. 


Positive Reinforcement:

Receive positive reinforcement and encouragement from a community that celebrates individual journeys and diverse perspectives, fostering an environment where each member feels seen, heard and valued.


A Beacon of Hope:

TLS serves as a beacon of hope for those seeking a supportive community during times of doubt and transition. When you join you’ll connect with others who have found strength and resilience in their own spiritual journeys.


Guidance & Perspective:

Benefit from the wisdom and insights of The NakedPastor and members of the community who have “been-there-done-that” and who contribute valuable perspectives on spirituality, deconstruction, and personal growth.

The Lasting Supper

Your Safe and Supportive Community for Deconstructing 
Your Beliefs and Creating Spiritual Freedom!

Deconstructing can be hard. It’s even harder when you’re trying to do it all on your own and feeling isolated with your thoughts and confused by your questions… I know… I’ve been there, and it’s not easy.

If you’re tired of struggling with all the questions in your mind, feeling afraid of other people judging you for your changing beliefs, and feeling discouraged about how to move forward, then I invite you to join me and hundreds of other members inside The Lasting Supper.

If you’re looking for a safe space to question your beliefs, discover more of who you are, and find the best path forward for yourself, then this online community is for you. Whether you’re churched, unchurched, or not allowed in a church, everyone is welcome here and we’d love to have you!

When you join you will be supported by me and our members to create your own spiritual freedom and you’ll have a safe place to share your story without fear of judgment or criticism. It’s truly a beautiful community of loving seekers just like you all supporting each other on their journeys and we’re excited to welcome you.

When You Join You 
Will Enjoy…


Community Support:

Get access to a supportive and understanding community where you can share your unique journey of deconstruction and have a safe space for guidance, care and support.


Clarity and Direction:

Benefit from weekly resources, discussions, and mini-courses designed to help you find clarity, direction, and peace of mind on your spiritual journey. 


Freedom to Question:

Embrace the freedom to question and explore without judgment. Asking tough questions and seeking alternative paths are encouraged, respected and supported. No more hiding! 


Navigate Deconstruction:

Deconstruction can be lonely… but not when you have a community. TLS empowers you to connect with other like-minded members, gain insights, and receive guidance from others who’ve experienced something similar to you.


A Sense of Belonging:

Experience a sense of belonging, connection and friendship with like-minded individuals who understand the complexities of spiritual transformation and are right there on that path with you. 


Personal Expression:

The Lasting Supper encourages you to express yourself creatively and authentically, and to share your stories and experiences. It’s a safe environment for you to share your personal expression and experience. 


Positive Reinforcement:

Receive positive reinforcement and encouragement from a community that celebrates individual journeys and diverse perspectives, fostering an environment where each member feels seen, heard and valued.


A Beacon of Hope:

TLS serves as a beacon of hope for those seeking a supportive community during times of doubt and transition. When you join you’ll connect with others who have found strength and resilience in their own spiritual journeys.


Guidance & Perspective:

Benefit from the wisdom and insights of The NakedPastor and members of the community who have “been-there-done-that” and who contribute valuable perspectives on spirituality, deconstruction, and personal growth.

The Lasting Supper

Your Safe and Supportive Community for Deconstructing Your Beliefs and Creating Spiritual Freedom!

Deconstructing can be hard. It’s even harder when you’re trying to do it all on your own and feeling isolated with your thoughts and confused by your questions… I know… I’ve been there, and it’s not easy.

If you’re tired of struggling with all the questions in your mind, feeling afraid of other people judging you for your changing beliefs, and feeling discouraged about how to move forward, then I invite you to join me and hundreds of other members inside The Lasting Supper.

If you’re looking for a safe space to question your beliefs, discover more of who you are, and find the best path forward for yourself, then this online community is for you. Whether you’re churched, unchurched, or not allowed in a church, everyone is welcome here and we’d love to have you!

When you join you will be supported by me and our members to create your own spiritual freedom and you’ll have a safe place to share your story without fear of judgment or criticism. It’s truly a beautiful community of loving seekers just like you all supporting each other on their journeys and we’re excited to welcome you.

Take a Seat at Our Table

If you’re tired of struggling through the deconstruction journey all on your own and you’d rather have a community of care and support, The Lasting Supper is for you. When you pull up a seat and join us at the table you’ll have a safe place to be transparent and honest about your journey. You’ll also get the training and support to navigate your way through the 5 stages of deconstruction so that you can become spiritually independent and free.  

This compassionate community is a place where we create deep understanding and connection between individuals who hold a diversity of beliefs or non-beliefs, and we work to empower everyone to find and embrace their own truth. As a member of the community you’ll have our support to navigate the complexities of deconstruction, celebrate personal growth, and find joy in the shared pursuit of spiritual freedom.

The Lasting Supper is an online community and education platform where you’ll gain access to our private members forum for in depth discussions and to our private education platform where all of our weekly content and training is hosted. 

When you join, you're not just joining an active, engaged and supportive community; you're getting access to weekly training and content designed to support you on your journey and create a truly transformative experience.
Michael Scott

"I no longer feel alone..."

"Before joining The Lasting Supper, I thought I was alone on my journey. I felt lonely, desperate, and like I didn't belong anywhere. I joined TLS to get support as I navigated my deconstruction and since becoming a member, I feel more secure in my non-belief and I no longer feel alone. TLS has connected me with like-minded people who genuinely care about me and I finally feel seen. It's a safe and welcoming place where understanding and support for deconstruction are at the core of our values and it’s such a safe and welcoming community. If you're hesitant to join TLS because you feel misunderstood in your deconstruction journey, know that we've been there and done that and we’ll support you every step of the way.” 
Sue T.

"TLS is full of empathy and respect..."

"All my friendships were from church, so it was difficult to find a place to share my struggles with faith and talk about the church hypocrisy I was experiencing. I was skeptical about TLS at first fearing it would be like other groups where differing views aren't respected, but my fears were unfounded - TLS is full of empathy and respect. It provided a safe space where I could share my story with others who understood and actually cared. Now, I’m more comfortable with the mystery of life, less anxious about needing to believe something specific, and I’ve made online friends who support me when life gets tough. I would recommend TLS to anyone and if you're on the fence or worried about the money, know that the membership fee helps maintain the safe and supportive environment for everyone." 

What You’ll Learn Inside The Lasting Supper

In addition to being a safe and supportive community, The Lasting Supper is designed to be a guide and support system on your journey through the 5 stages of deconstruction to a life of spiritual independence and authentic self expression.

You see, without support, most people struggle through the Denial, Anger and Bargaining stages of deconstruction all on their own, and then they get stuck in the Depression stage, sometimes for YEARS, before finally making it to a place of Acceptance & Growth. 

I created The Lasting Supper to fast-track that journey, give people practical tools for moving forward, and provide a safe space of connection and community along the way. 
When you join TLS and dive into our content you will learn:
  • Powerful ways to rebuild your self-esteem, self-confidence, and self-assurance as you peel away the layers of conditioning and limiting beliefs instilled by past teachings, so you can step into a renewed sense of trust in your value and your worth. 
  • How to build a new identity for yourself beyond religion, so that you can uncover and embrace your truest self, free from the expectations of others and grounded in your own values, passions, and desires.
  • Ways to honor your past without carrying its weight so that you can appreciate who you once were and start following a more joyful, authentic spiritual path that reflects your true self.
  • ​How to relate to the confronting questions in your mind and find your way to a new set of spiritual beliefs that resonate with you on a deep level and feel more true to who you are today.
  • ​Tools to overcome feelings of “not being good enough” or “not doing it right” so that you can stop trying to meet other people’s expectations of you, and start accepting, honoring and loving yourself more. 
  • ​Processes to release past beliefs and replace them with empowering truths that reflect your growth, personal freedom, and unique values.
  • ​Tools to quiet the inner critic, release fears of judgment, and let go of guilt and shame, so you can explore your evolving beliefs with confidence, compassion and a freedom to live more authentically.
  • ​How to navigate the complexities of romantic relationships with partners who may not share your journey, or are moving through it at a different pace, so that you can deepen your connection and improve your relationship even amidst shifting spiritual beliefs. 
  • ​Practical, real-world strategies to build authentic friendships and community outside of a religious context, so that you can connect deeply with others on a foundation of shared values, trust, and mutual respect, rather than shared religious beliefs.
  • ​How to talk to your kids about deconstruction in a way that respects their perspectives, encourages open dialogue, and maintains a compassionate family environment as they come to understand your journey and how it’s unfolding.
  • ​Techniques to manage the challenging emotions of deconstruction, including the denial, anger and depression that can sometimes be overwhelming, so that you can find new empowering beliefs while enjoying deeper emotional stability.
  • ​Ways to navigate challenging conversations with confidence and ease so you can feel better about communicating your journey to family and friends who may not understand what you’re going through.
  • ​A path to reconnecting deeply with your core values so that you have a renewed sense of purpose and meaning in your day-to-day life that aligns with your unique journey, and feels deeply meaningful.
  • ​And so much more!

"I no longer feel alone..."

Michael Scott
"Before joining The Lasting Supper, I thought I was alone on my journey. I felt lonely, desperate, and like I didn't belong anywhere. I joined TLS to get support as I navigated my deconstruction and since becoming a member, I feel more secure in my non-belief and I no longer feel alone. TLS has connected me with like-minded people who genuinely care about me and I finally feel seen. It's a safe and welcoming place where understanding and support for deconstruction are at the core of our values and it’s such a safe and welcoming community. If you're hesitant to join TLS because you feel misunderstood in your deconstruction journey, know that we've been there and done that and we’ll support you every step of the way.” 

"TLS is full of empathy and respect..."

Sue T.
"All my friendships were from church, so it was difficult to find a place to share my struggles with faith and talk about the church hypocrisy I was experiencing. I was skeptical about TLS at first fearing it would be like other groups where differing views aren't respected, but my fears were unfounded - TLS is full of empathy and respect. It provided a safe space where I could share my story with others who understood and actually cared. Now, I’m more comfortable with the mystery of life, less anxious about needing to believe something specific, and I’ve made online friends who support me when life gets tough. I would recommend TLS to anyone and if you're on the fence or worried about the money, know that the membership fee helps maintain the safe and supportive environment for everyone." 

Inside Your Monthly Membership

Every month that you're a member of The Lasting Supper and engaged with our community you’ll have unlimited access to our private members forum where you can take part in deep discussions, share posts, ask for support, and make topic requests. You'll also receive our weekly content focused on guiding you through the 5 stages of the deconstruction journey and creating the spiritual freedom you truly desire…
Here's what you'll get...

Video Trainings

Once a month you'll get access to a new video training focused on a specific topic. Each video focuses on one of the 5 stages of deconstruction and provides valuable content and specific actions for creating progress on your journey.  

PDF Downloads

Each month you’ll receive a new PDF download or written post with content, checklists, frameworks, and/or exercises to support you through your current stage of deconstruction.

LIVE Q&A Calls

Once every month you’ll be invited to join a LIVE 60 minute Q&A with The NakedPastor where you can show up with all your questions and get direct access for support and guidance. On these calls you’ll be able to get one-on-one support with your specific challenges and obstacles so that you can break through whatever is holding you back.

Book Recommendation & Review:

Once a month you’ll receive a recommendation and review on a book relevant to your deconstruction journey and creating spiritual freedom. In these reviews you’ll learn the key takeaways and major distinctions from the book and get perspectives and opinions on how it can support you. 

Bonus Sessions - Member Interviews:

From time-to-time within the community we host interviews with members where they share about their deconstruction journey. These interviews give everyone an opportunity to see that they’re not alone and to learn from other people’s journeys with deconstruction. These interviews help build community and create even more connection between our members. 
**Note: New content, value and resources will be made available every week, though the specific content deliverables, and cadence of each type of content, are subject to change at any time based on the community's feedback, needs and direction. 

What You’ll Learn Inside The Lasting Supper

In addition to being a safe and supportive community, The Lasting Supper is designed to be a guide and support system on your journey through the 5 stages of deconstruction to a life of spiritual independence and authentic self expression.

You see, without support, most people struggle through the Denial, Anger and Bargaining stages of deconstruction all on their own, and then they get stuck in the Depression stage, sometimes for YEARS, before finally making it to a place of Acceptance & Growth. 

I created The Lasting Supper to fast-track that journey, give people practical tools for moving forward, and provide a safe space of connection and community along the way. 
When you join TLS and dive into our content you will learn:
  • Powerful ways to rebuild your self-esteem, self-confidence, and self-assurance as you peel away the layers of conditioning and limiting beliefs instilled by past teachings, so you can step into a renewed sense of trust in your value and your worth. 
  • How to build a new identity for yourself beyond religion, so that you can uncover and embrace your truest self, free from the expectations of others and grounded in your own values, passions, and desires.
  • Ways to honor your past without carrying its weight so that you can appreciate who you once were and start following a more joyful, authentic spiritual path that reflects your true self.
  • ​How to relate to the confronting questions in your mind and find your way to a new set of spiritual beliefs that resonate with you on a deep level and feel more true to who you are today.
  • ​Tools to overcome feelings of “not being good enough” or “not doing it right” so that you can stop trying to meet other people’s expectations of you, and start accepting, honoring and loving yourself more. 
  • ​Processes to release past beliefs and replace them with empowering truths that reflect your growth, personal freedom, and unique values.
  • ​Tools to quiet the inner critic, release fears of judgment, and let go of guilt and shame, so you can explore your evolving beliefs with confidence, compassion and a freedom to live more authentically.
  • ​How to navigate the complexities of romantic relationships with partners who may not share your journey, or are moving through it at a different pace, so that you can deepen your connection and improve your relationship even amidst shifting spiritual beliefs. 
  • ​Practical, real-world strategies to build authentic friendships and community outside of a religious context, so that you can connect deeply with others on a foundation of shared values, trust, and mutual respect, rather than shared religious beliefs.
  • ​How to talk to your kids about deconstruction in a way that respects their perspectives, encourages open dialogue, and maintains a compassionate family environment as they come to understand your journey and how it’s unfolding.
  • ​Techniques to manage the challenging emotions of deconstruction, including the denial, anger and depression that can sometimes be overwhelming, so that you can find new empowering beliefs while enjoying deeper emotional stability.
  • ​Ways to navigate challenging conversations with confidence and ease so you can feel better about communicating your journey to family and friends who may not understand what you’re going through.
  • ​A path to reconnecting deeply with your core values so that you have a renewed sense of purpose and meaning in your day-to-day life that aligns with your unique journey, and feels deeply meaningful.
  • ​And so much more!

Inside Your Monthly Membership

Every month that you're a member of The Lasting Supper and engaged with our community you’ll have unlimited access to our private members forum where you can take part in deep discussions, share posts, ask for support, and make topic requests. You'll also receive our weekly content focused on guiding you through the 5 stages of the deconstruction journey and creating the spiritual freedom you truly desire…
Here's what you'll get...

Video Trainings

Once a month you'll get access to a new video training focused on a specific topic. Each video focuses on one of the 5 stages of deconstruction and provides valuable content and specific actions for creating progress on your journey.  

PDF Downloads

Each month you’ll receive a new PDF download or written post with content, checklists, frameworks, and/or exercises to support you through your current stage of deconstruction.

LIVE Q&A Calls

Once every month you’ll be invited to join a LIVE 60 minute Q&A with The NakedPastor where you can show up with all your questions and get direct access for support and guidance. On these calls you’ll be able to get one-on-one support with your specific challenges and obstacles so that you can break through whatever is holding you back.

Book Recommendation & Review:

Once a month you’ll receive a recommendation and review on a book relevant to your deconstruction journey and creating spiritual freedom. In these reviews you’ll learn the key takeaways and major distinctions from the book and get perspectives and opinions on how it can support you. 

Bonus Sessions - Member Interviews:

From time-to-time within the community we host interviews with members where they share about their deconstruction journey. These interviews give everyone an opportunity to see that they’re not alone and to learn from other people’s journeys with deconstruction. These interviews help build community and create even more connection between our members. 
**Note: New content, value and resources will be made available every week, though the specific content deliverables, and cadence of each type of content, are subject to change at any time based on the community's feedback, needs and direction. 

Join The Lasting Supper Community Today!

Let’s face it, deconstructing can be hard. It’s even harder when you’re trying to do it all on your own and you’re feeling isolated with your thoughts and changing beliefs… I know, because I’ve been there, and it’s not easy.  

That's why I started The Lasting Supper community and made it my mission to create a safe place for people from diverse backgrounds, beliefs, and traditions to come together to share their stories, find peace, and feel secure knowing they're not alone.

So, if you’re tired of struggling with all the questions in your mind, feeling afraid of other people judging you for your changing beliefs, or getting discouraged about how to move forward, then I invite you to join me and our members on the inside. 

When you do, you’ll be welcomed with open arms into our vibrant community of like-minded people, get to engage in deep and enriching discussions with other members, and receive my support to navigate your journey through deconstruction. 

Your Investment...

I invest a lot of time, effort, energy and money into running and maintaining a community like this, but I’ve always wanted to make The Lasting Supper available to anyone who desires this type of connection and growth, all without breaking the bank. 

I value accessibility & inclusivity, and I truly want to support more people on their journey. So instead of you investing $97, $47, or even $27 a month to be a part of TLS, you can join right now, before the doors close on November 16th, for just $19.99 per month… Or you can join annually to get 2 months free plus another special bonus!  

This investment helps me maintain the site with new content every week, support my team for their contributions to The Lasting Supper community, and keep TLS a safe space away from the internet bullies and keyboard warriors who have lots of not-so-helpful things to say.  

So if you’re ready to be part of an encouraging community who understands what you’re going through, and have access to all our weekly content designed to support you through the challenging stages of deconstruction on your way to a life of spiritual independence and freedom, then pull up a chair and join us at the table now. We’d love to have you!
Doors close at midnight Pacific on Saturday November 16th!
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Billed Monthly. Cancel Anytime.
  • Immediate Access
  • Complete Content Library
  • Monthly Training Videos
  • Private Members Forum
  • Monthly Q&A and Hangout Call
  • Exclusive Content & Downloads
  • BONUS: "Letters For Deconstruction" Book  ($17.99)
  • Join TLS Now!
ANNUAL MEMBERSHIP - $324.00
$
199.00
Billed Annually. Cancel Anytime.
  • Immediate Access
  • Complete Content Library
  • Monthly Training Videos
  • Private Members Forum
  • Monthly Q&A and Hangout Call
  • Exclusive Content & Downloads
  • BONUS: 2 Months FREE!  ($39.98)
  • BONUS: "Letters For Deconstruction" Book  ($17.99)
  • BONUS: "Love Beyond Belief" Course  ($197.00)
  • Join TLS Now!

Join The Lasting Supper Community Today!

Let’s face it, deconstructing can be hard. It’s even harder when you’re trying to do it all on your own and you’re feeling isolated with your thoughts and changing beliefs… I know, because I’ve been there, and it’s not easy.  

That's why I started The Lasting Supper community and made it my mission to create a safe place for people from diverse backgrounds, beliefs, and traditions to come together to share their stories, find peace, and feel secure knowing they're not alone.

So, if you’re tired of struggling with all the questions in your mind, feeling afraid of other people judging you for your changing beliefs, or getting discouraged about how to move forward, then I invite you to join me and our members on the inside. 

When you do, you’ll be welcomed with open arms into our vibrant community of like-minded people, get to engage in deep and enriching discussions with other members, and receive my support to navigate your journey through deconstruction. 

Your Investment...

I invest a lot of time, effort, energy and money into running and maintaining a community like this, but I’ve always wanted to make The Lasting Supper available to anyone who desires this type of connection and growth, all without breaking the bank. 

I value accessibility & inclusivity, and I truly want to support more people on their journey. So instead of you investing $97, $47, or even $27 a month to be a part of TLS, you can join right now, before the doors close on November 16th, for just $19.99 per month… Or you can join annually to get 2 months free plus another special bonus!  

This investment helps me maintain the site with new content every week, support my team for their contributions to The Lasting Supper community, and keep TLS a safe space away from the internet bullies and keyboard warriors who have lots of not-so-helpful things to say.  

So if you’re ready to be part of an encouraging community who understands what you’re going through, and have access to all our weekly content designed to support you through the challenging stages of deconstruction on your way to a life of spiritual independence and freedom, then pull up a chair and join us at the table now. We’d love to have you!
Doors close at midnight Pacific on 
Saturday November 16th!
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00 Years 00 Months 00 Weeks 00 Days 00 Hours 00 Minutes 00 Seconds

Join Us…

MONTHLY MEMBERSHIP - $27.00
$
19.99
Billed Monthly. Cancel Anytime.
  • Immediate Access
  • Complete Content Library
  • Monthly Training Videos
  • Private Members Forum
  • Monthly Q&A and Hangout Call
  • Exclusive Content & Downloads
  • BONUS: "Letters For Deconstruction" Book 
    ($17.99)
  • Join TLS Now!
ANNUAL MEMBERSHIP - $324.00
$
199.00
Billed Annually. Cancel Anytime.
  • Immediate Access
  • Complete Content Library
  • Monthly Training Videos
  • Private Members Forum
  • Monthly Q&A and Hangout Call
  • Exclusive Content & Downloads
  • BONUS: 2 Months FREE! 
    ($39.98)
  • BONUS: "Letters For Deconstruction" Book  
    ($17.99)
  • BONUS: "Love Beyond Belief" Course  
    ($197.00)
  • Join TLS Now!

Bonuses for Joining Today

To make your decision to join even easier, and provide even more value, I’m going to add in these bonuses for free when you join before midnight on November 16th when we close the doors until sometime next year so that we can meet, connect with and support our new members who join this month. 

MONTHLY BONUS:  “Letters For Deconstruction” Book - ($17.99 Value)

Join TLS Monthly and receive a digital copy of my 288 page book “Letters For Deconstruction”. This is a valuable collection of the most helpful lessons, insights, and reflections that I’ve written over the last decade for people going through the process of deconstruction. If you’re going through a painful transition of changing beliefs, you’re losing the faith you once knew, or you’re struggling with your relationship to the church, this book is a guide to finding your own authentic spirituality and living it with courage and joy.

ANNUAL BONUS: "Love Beyond Belief" Video Course - ($197.00 Value)

Join TLS Annually and you’ll receive a copy of the “Letters For Deconstruction” book AND access to my $197 online video course called “Love Beyond Belief” where you’ll discover how to strengthen your relationship or marriage and deepen your connection with your partner amidst shifting spiritual beliefs. If either of you are questioning your faith or struggling in your spirituality, the Love Beyond Belief course gives you the guidance, practical tools, and proven strategies to grow and improve your relationship even with changing beliefs.

Risk-Free Guarantee

At The Lasting Supper we truly care about our people and we want to make your decision to join as easy as possible. To make that a no-risk decision for you, and to give you the opportunity to see if TLS is right for you, we offer a 30-day money back guarantee. This means that you can join our community now and if you don’t feel that it’s for you within the first 30 days, simply let us know and we'll refund your investment, no questions asked… and once you join, you can cancel anytime. 

I'm confident that once you dive into the private members forum, engage with our weekly content sessions, and explore everything inside TLS you’ll see the value of staying with us and getting to consistently experience the supportive environment, engaging discussions, and valuable resources we offer. 

So if you’re ready to say “”goodbye” to the loneliness, isolation and confusion of deconstruction and say “hello” to a community of safety, connection and support, then join us risk-free today and say "yes" to a loving and supportive community.

Bonuses for Joining Today

To make your decision to join even easier, and provide even more value, I’m going to add in these bonuses for free when you join before midnight on November 16th when we close the doors until sometime next year so that we can meet, connect with and support our new members who join this month. 

MONTHLY BONUS:  “Letters For Deconstruction” Book - ($17.99 Value)

Join TLS Monthly and receive a digital copy of my 288 page book “Letters For Deconstruction”. This is a valuable collection of the most helpful lessons, insights, and reflections that I’ve written over the last decade for people going through the process of deconstruction. If you’re going through a painful transition of changing beliefs, you’re losing the faith you once knew, or you’re struggling with your relationship to the church, this book is a guide to finding your own authentic spirituality and living it with courage and joy.

ANNUAL BONUS: "Love Beyond Belief" Video Course - ($197.00 Value)

Join TLS Annually and you’ll receive a copy of the “Letters For Deconstruction” book AND access to my $197 online video course called “Love Beyond Belief” where you’ll discover how to strengthen your relationship or marriage and deepen your connection with your partner amidst shifting spiritual beliefs. If either of you are questioning your faith or struggling in your spirituality, the Love Beyond Belief course gives you the guidance, practical tools, and proven strategies to grow and improve your relationship even with changing beliefs.

Risk-Free Guarantee

At The Lasting Supper we truly care about our people and we want to make your decision to join as easy as possible. To make that a no-risk decision for you, and to give you the opportunity to see if TLS is right for you, we offer a 30-day money back guarantee. This means that you can join our community now and if you don’t feel that it’s for you within the first 30 days, simply let us know and we'll refund your investment, no questions asked… and once you join, you can cancel anytime. 

I'm confident that once you dive into the private members forum, engage with our weekly content sessions, and explore everything inside TLS you’ll see the value of staying with us and getting to consistently experience the supportive environment, engaging discussions, and valuable resources we offer. 

So if you’re ready to say “”goodbye” to the loneliness, isolation and confusion of deconstruction and say “hello” to a community of safety, connection and support, then join us risk-free today and say "yes" to a loving and supportive community.

Say “Yes” to Friendship, Fellowship and Freedom…

You don’t need to go through your deconstruction journey alone. There are countless others going through a similar journey to yours and many of them are here in The Lasting Supper eager to connect and support. 

If you're longing for a supportive community, new friendships, and a place where you can freely explore your beliefs and find your path to spiritual freedom, then The Lasting Supper is waiting for you. Inside The Lasting Supper, you'll find more than just a community; you'll discover a family of kindred spirits where you can share your journey, your struggles, and your victories. With our weekly resources, live Q&A call, and active private members forum, you'll have consistent support, camaraderie and guidance to find your own spiritual path and thrive in your life. 

Don't wait any longer. The Lasting Supper is here for you. So pull up a chair, join us at the table, and experience the transformative power of our community. It’s time to let go of the self-doubt and loneliness and to create the spiritual freedom and expression you truly desire. 

Frequently Asked Questions

    

Are You Ready To Join Us?

At The Lasting Supper, we understand that the journey of deconstruction can often feel isolating and overwhelming. That's why we've created more than just a community here; we've built a safe place where people like you can freely explore your beliefs, find your spiritual path, and connect with others on the same journey. With our monthly membership, you'll gain access to a wealth of resources, including video trainings, PDF downloads, live Q&A calls, and our exclusive members forum, all designed to guide and support you through your deconstruction journey and personal growth. 

Our content provides an abundance of value but perhaps the most beneficial aspect of The Lasting Supper is the opportunity to connect with others who understand your journey and build lasting friendships to ensure you don't have to navigate deconstruction all alone. Our community is a beacon of hope for those seeking connection, understanding, and acceptance during times of doubt and transition, and we're excited to welcome you to the table. 

Plus, you'll get our additional bonuses, and with our 30-day money-back guarantee and ability to cancel at any time, joining The Lasting Supper is risk-free. So why wait? Join us today for only $19.99/month and experience the comfort, safety and power of our community and support.
MONTHLY MEMBERSHIP - $27.00
$
19.99
Billed Monthly. Cancel Anytime.
  • Immediate Access
  • Complete Content Library
  • Monthly Training Videos
  • Private Members Forum
  • Monthly Q&A and Hangout Call
  • Exclusive Content & Downloads
  • BONUS: "Letters For Deconstruction" Book ($17.99)
  • Join TLS Now!
ANNUAL MEMBERSHIP - $324.00
$
199.00
Billed Annually. Cancel Anytime.
  • Immediate Access
  • Complete Content Library
  • Monthly Training Videos
  • Private Members Forum
  • Monthly Q&A and Hangout Call
  • Exclusive Content & Downloads
  • BONUS: 2 Months FREE! ($39.98)
  • BONUS: "Letters For Deconstruction" Book ($17.99)
  • BONUS: "Love Beyond Belief" Course ($197.00)
  • Join TLS Now!
David Mercer

"I met my wife inside TLS!"

"Before joining The Lasting Supper almost a decade ago I felt completely alone in my doubts. I was a Minister, and harboring uncertainty without anyone to talk to was driving me crazy. Especially while navigating a failing marriage and making big career decisions. I joined TLS on someone’s recommendation and I got the community support I needed to go through major life changes. I got divorced, left my ministerial work, and moved to Florida to be with my now-wife Sylvia who I met inside TLS! We've been married for seven years now and all of these transitions were only possible because TLS provided me with the support I needed. 

If you're unsure about joining TLS, know that it's a safe place to try out. There’s no pressure to stay if it's not for you, unlike traditional church settings, and if you ever want to leave, nobody will try to pressure you into staying.” 

"TLS has filled the void after leaving the church..." 

"When I left the church it meant losing all my friends and entire support system and I experienced a major lack of community and support. I chose to join TLS and now I have an invaluable online community where I can share my story, ask questions, and bounce ideas off others. This community has connected me with new friends and it has provided opportunities to learn from diverse beliefs and perspectives. For anyone considering TLS, I would say, 'Try it—it might be exactly what you need.' It has filled the void after leaving the church and it’s a supportive community and educational environment where I continue to grow." - M.H.

"I've made new friends who understand and support me..."

"Before joining The Lasting Supper, my absolute biggest challenge was reconciling church abuse with a loving God, which left me feeling confused and torn. I joined TLS seeking healing and a new community and, since joining, I've experienced profound healing and I’ve made new friends who understand and support me. My favorite thing about TLS is the community forum where I've connected with like-minded friends who are helping me grow. If you're looking for a 'safe church,' this is the place to be!”  - Sandy H. 

"I love TLS!"

“TLS offers me inclusion, community, family, and friends when I’ve been excluded by the church, my biological family, and church friends due to a change in my beliefs. I love TLS! I’ve learned a lot from the members, and they’ve challenged me.” - Arlene P.

"TLS is amazing!"

“TLS is amazing. To be able to be whoever you are in the moment is truly special. From church, to faith, to personal issues – this is an example of a real community, without judgment or expectation.” – Chris

Are You Ready To Join Us?

At The Lasting Supper, we understand that the journey of deconstruction can often feel isolating and overwhelming. That's why we've created more than just a community here; we've built a safe place where people like you can freely explore your beliefs, find your spiritual path, and connect with others on the same journey. With our monthly membership, you'll gain access to a wealth of resources, including video trainings, PDF downloads, live Q&A calls, and our exclusive members forum, all designed to guide and support you through your deconstruction journey and personal growth. 

Our content provides an abundance of value but perhaps the most beneficial aspect of The Lasting Supper is the opportunity to connect with others who understand your journey and build lasting friendships to ensure you don't have to navigate deconstruction all alone. Our community is a beacon of hope for those seeking connection, understanding, and acceptance during times of doubt and transition, and we're excited to welcome you to the table. 

Plus, you'll get our additional bonuses, and with our 30-day money-back guarantee and ability to cancel at any time, joining The Lasting Supper is risk-free. So why wait? Join us today for only $19.99/month and experience the comfort, safety and power of our community and support.
MONTHLY MEMBERSHIP - $27.00
$
19.99
Billed Monthly. Cancel Anytime.
  • Immediate Access
  • Complete Content Library
  • Monthly Training Videos
  • Private Members Forum
  • Monthly Q&A and Hangout Call
  • Exclusive Content & Downloads
  • BONUS: "Letters For Deconstruction" Book
    ($17.99)
  • Join TLS Now!
ANNUAL MEMBERSHIP - $324.00
$
199.00
Billed Annually. Cancel Anytime.
  • Immediate Access
  • Complete Content Library
  • Monthly Training Videos
  • Private Members Forum
  • Monthly Q&A and Hangout Call
  • Exclusive Content & Downloads
  • BONUS: 2 Months FREE!
    ($39.98)
  • BONUS: "Letters For Deconstruction" Book
    ($17.99)
  • BONUS: "Love Beyond Belief" Course
    ($197.00)
  • Join TLS Now!

"I met my wife inside TLS!"

David Mercer
"Before joining The Lasting Supper almost a decade ago I felt completely alone in my doubts. I was a Minister, and harboring uncertainty without anyone to talk to was driving me crazy. Especially while navigating a failing marriage and making big career decisions. I joined TLS on someone’s recommendation and I got the community support I needed to go through major life changes. I got divorced, left my ministerial work, and moved to Florida to be with my now-wife Sylvia who I met inside TLS! We've been married for seven years now and all of these transitions were only possible because TLS provided me with the support I needed. 

If you're unsure about joining TLS, know that it's a safe place to try out. There’s no pressure to stay if it's not for you, unlike traditional church settings, and if you ever want to leave, nobody will try to pressure you into staying.”  - David Mercer

"TLS has filled the void after leaving the church..." 

"When I left the church it meant losing all my friends and entire support system and I experienced a major lack of community and support. I chose to join TLS and now I have an invaluable online community where I can share my story, ask questions, and bounce ideas off others. This community has connected me with new friends and it has provided opportunities to learn from diverse beliefs and perspectives. For anyone considering TLS, I would say, 'Try it—it might be exactly what you need.' It has filled the void after leaving the church and it’s a supportive community and educational environment where I continue to grow." - M.H.

"I've made new friends who understand and support me..."

"Before joining The Lasting Supper, my absolute biggest challenge was reconciling church abuse with a loving God, which left me feeling confused and torn. I joined TLS seeking healing and a new community and, since joining, I've experienced profound healing and I’ve made new friends who understand and support me. My favorite thing about TLS is the community forum where I've connected with like-minded friends who are helping me grow. If you're looking for a 'safe church,' this is the place to be!”  - Sandy H. 

"I love TLS!"

“TLS offers me inclusion, community, family, and friends when I’ve been excluded by the church, my biological family, and church friends due to a change in my beliefs. I love TLS! I’ve learned a lot from the members, and they’ve challenged me.” - Arlene P.

"TLS is amazing!"

“TLS is amazing. To be able to be whoever you are in the moment is truly special. From church, to faith, to personal issues – this is an example of a real community, without judgment or expectation.” – Chris
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